Decluttering Myths That Might be Holding You Back...

“You have to do it all at once.”

Reality: Decluttering is more sustainable and less overwhelming when done in small, manageable steps. You don’t need to dedicate a full weekend to see progress. Often times I’ll work with a client for a few sessions over the course of a few weeks, progress and momentum are our friends; a frenzied pace helps no one.

“If you haven’t used it in a year, toss it.”

Reality: This is a guideline, not a rule. Some items (like formalwear or seasonal items) may not be used often but still have a valid place in your home. Sometimes giving yourself another 6 months or so can help you realize you can, in fact, let it go.

 “Decluttering means being a minimalist.”

Reality: Decluttering is about creating a space that works for you—not about owning the bare minimum. It’s okay to keep things you love and use. I’m not a minimalist by any means and firmly believe that keeping things that may only have a special, decorative impact on your daily happiness is important. 

“You’ll regret letting things go.”

Reality: Most people don’t miss what they declutter thoughtfully. Regret usually comes from purging under pressure or without clarity. This is a reminder why the first tip here is important, taking your time and being thoughtful about what and why you’re letting go of something is valuable.

“You must get rid of sentimental items.”

Reality: You can keep meaningful items—just be intentional. Display a few favorites or store them in a designated memory box instead of letting them overflow. Remember, you’re not honoring memories by keeping items taped up in a box in the attic. Using or displaying a few sentimental items honors your space as well as the memory of say, a loved one.

“Decluttering is a one-time event.”

Reality: Life changes, and so do your needs. Decluttering is an ongoing process of aligning your space with your current life situation or season. Even once the best organizational systems (for you) are in place, upkeep and attention is needed every once in awhile so don’t let it deter you; refreshes and shifts are common and expected. Once you get into the habit of getting and staying organized, it might be fun! Okay, just me?